We need a male contraceptive pill and we need it now

We need a male contraceptive pill and we need it now

This week I have an appointment to remove my Implanon after 3 years of use and I couldn’t be more excited and frustrated at the same time.

The past three years have been what I describe as a love-hate relationship with my implant. On the good side, it has been great having one of the most (if not the most ) effective methods of birth control- with 99% effectiveness.

However, like everything good in life it has come at a great price- spotting (sometimes for weeks), more headaches and extreme mood-swings; all listed as possible side effects of the implant.

If you use or have used any type of hormonal birth control you know what I am talking about. I mean, you only need to type “side effects of hormonal contraceptives” on a browser and you will find forums and pages dedicated to the topic.

If you do not have ovaries and you are reading this please know that it is really hard for women to find a contraceptive that fits their lifestyles, that they can afford, and that works for their bodies.

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So, why do we keep using hormonal contraceptives even when they cause us adverse effects? Blatantly speaking many of us are terrorized by the idea of “getting” pregnant. Using condoms – which have an 85% effective rate —as our ONLY method of birth is rather brave.

Not only do we feel the side effects of birth control, but very often we have to read/and hear sexist comments on how it is ” women’s fault” “getting pregnant” (like if men did not participate in the process) .

When it comes to birth control we also have to talk about all the women across the world are denied the right to obtain birth control – which constitutes a type of gender-based violence. A recent report showed that only 53 million women have begun using contraceptives since 2012, which is far from the goal of 120 million women experts had hoped to reach by 2020.

And I could write an entire essay on how unjust it is that women have to pay for birth control. Planned Parenthood indicated that in the U.S more than a third of female voters have struggled to afford prescription birth control at some point in their lives.

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For these and many other reasons, I simply cannot wait for the precious moment when male hormonal contraceptives are ready and available to the public- although it seems it wont be around for another 10 years. The world owes women equity when it comes to birth control. And don’t get me wrong, I don’t believe that a male pill will solve all the issues I have mentioned but it will be an opportunity for men to step up and share responsibility for birth control.

For me, it is simple: I expect that me and my partner are equally responsible for the use of birth control. And if male contraceptives become available, I think it’s time for them to carry on the torch – at least for 3 years 🙂 Or what do you think?

In the International Day of Education let’s not forget about Sexuality Education

In the International Day of Education let’s not forget about Sexuality Education

Yesterday, January 24, while strolling down on my Facebook feed, I saw several posts by different NGOs, UN agencies, and government representatives celebrating the International Day of Education. A few posts later, I bump into a study highlighting that only 34% of young people worldwide have an accurate knowledge of how HIV is transmitted and how it can be prevented – ONLY 34 %!

When governments and organizations talk about the Right to Education, they do not mention the right to obtain Comprehensive Sexuality Education, and they should. The study also shows that young people account for almost 50 percent of new HIV infections worldwide.

For girls and women, lack of knowledge about their bodies and sexualities makes them vulnerable to gender-based violence, an estimate of 1/3 women worldwide has experienced physical and sexual abuse. Gender-based violence continues to be one of the most widespread human rights violations worldwide. Likewise, little knowledge of and access to contraceptives and abortion services, make adolescent girls and young women make up 40 percent of all unsafe abortions.

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Governments are failing to provide young people with the necessary information to live long and healthy lives. Providing Comprehensive Sexuality Education to young people is an obligation of every state in the world. But, what is the difference between the old and boring Sexual Health Education and the new and sexy Comprehensive Sexuality Education (CSE)?

The old approach to Sexual Education concentrated on teaching the physiological side of sexuality without taking into consideration psychological and social issues. In contrary,  CSE provides a holistic approach that contemplates the biological side of sexuality, plus the emotional wellbeing of young people, encourages healthy relationships, considers cultural factors such as religion and pop culture, encourages assertiveness in your body and decisions affecting it, it talks about gender identity, and encourages respect and non-discrimination.

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CSE can contribute to reducing poverty by decreasing unwanted adolescent pregnancies (less pregnant adolescents = more adolescents in schools) and by empowering women. It reduces discrimination against non-cis people. CSI can contribute to eliminating gender-based violence by teaching young men values like respect, empathy, and consent. It empowers young girls to say NO and to take control over decisions and actions that affect their bodies.

While some old and/or conservative folks may argue that CSE “encourages” adolescents to be sexually active, evidence proves the contrary. Evidence shows that a well-implemented CSE provides the confidence to take care of sexual health thus reducing early sexual debut and other high-risk sexual activities. Plus, eliminating CSE from the schools’ curriculum, does not mean that kids are not being exposed to sexually related content everywhere else. Schools and governments bear the responsibility to provide adolescents with the necessary skills and knowledge to filter all the information out there.

In conclusion, Comprehensive Sexual Education rocks! Talk about it, learn about it, and let’s normalize taking control over our bodies and sexualities 😊

Happy International Education Day!

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